Beyond the Reef

Vulnerability,Brené Brown says it’s uncertainty, risk, emotional exposure—but it feels to me like standing barefootat the edge of the sea,where the sand still remembers my nameand the water does not.Lately, the tides have changed.What once felt like a gentle shorelinenow asks me to swim—past the protective reef,past what is familiar,into waters that are deep, dark,andContinue reading “Beyond the Reef”

Myth of the able-bodied

THE EDITOR, Madam: Each year, the International Day of Persons with Disabilities prompts reflection. Yet, what is needed is a profound global paradigm shift. The very phrase “persons with disabilities” itself is a misnomer. As eloquently noted by a speaker, every human possesses a range of abilities. None of us is complete; we are allContinue reading “Myth of the able-bodied”

Accountability for institutional dysfunctions

THE EDITOR, Madam: Three weeks after my mother left The University Hospital of the West Indies (UHWI), we received a call – not to check on her health or follow-up care – but to give vague billing details. We were told that the final bill would be available after settling with the insurance, and ifContinue reading “Accountability for institutional dysfunctions”

Authentic Love

Authentic love, a paradox in itself, is found in vulnerability. Vulnerability is like stripping yourself naked before the Other and the other, opening our hearts, minds, souls and bodies, revealing the rawness of our Graced imperfection. The Other sees our Graced imperfection, a beauty marked by wrinkles, cracks, brokenness, and wounds. The Other sees theContinue reading “Authentic Love”

Complexity of Relationship

Relationships are not fixed like lifeless statues.   Rather, they are organic, fluid, and moveable, able to change, existing like a conveyor belt on a continuum, constantly shifting and evolving.  We are either hated or loved, accepted or rejected, or we experience relationships at some point between these extremes.  Some people love us, and othersContinue reading “Complexity of Relationship”