Helicopter and Lawnmower Parents

Two teachers gifted me with the terms “helicopter parents” and “lawnmower parents” based on their years in the profession. “Helicopter parents” always hover over or scrutinize every move of their children, imprisoning them with their eyes, and not allowing them to venture into unchartered territories on their own.   “Lawnmower parents” utilize their energy and resourcesContinue reading “Helicopter and Lawnmower Parents”

Perspectives, Data and Intuition

In the sacristy before Mass, I briefly conversed with two altar servers, a ten-year-old male and a fifteen-year-old female. With piercing eyes looking up at me, the ten year says, “You are old.” Rebutting, the fifteen-year-old says, “No!  That’s not true. Father looks young.” This back-and-forth conversation persisted until it was time to leave forContinue reading “Perspectives, Data and Intuition”

Antonio’s Holy Moment

Fifteen minutes before the start of the Eucharistic celebration at the Living Water Community Chapel, I was having a silent moment in the children’s room, separated from the main worship area by a glass window. Sitting meditatively, Antonio, an eight-year-old boy, quietly stood eye-to-eye with me.   “You are missing something. Guess what it is?” heContinue reading “Antonio’s Holy Moment”

Savannah Grass*

Its carpet-like grass  Its wide expansive space Its huge umbrella-like shady trees. It’s devoted coconut vendors. It’s a tranquil ambiance.  It’s an oasis amidst a bustling noisy city, Drawing people to play, compete, relax, chill, exercise, party, buy and sell.  Like the Savannah Grass Human attraction to each other is initiated by external beauty WeContinue reading “Savannah Grass*”

Incarnation – From parochialism to universalism

God becomes incarnate in the parochialism of space and time. Present yet limited. . . God’s incarnation transcends the parochialism of Israel, Palestine, and Judaism to the universalism of the earth and beyond.  From . . . . . . Palestine to occupied Pakistan, . . . Israel to Icacos, . . . Bethlehem toContinue reading “Incarnation – From parochialism to universalism”

Importance of a mentally healthy society

THE EDITOR, Madam: Metaphorically speaking, rape is a forced and inhumane violent action upon an individual or social group in which their human dignity is robbed, resulting in trauma manifested in certain mental illnesses and deviant behaviour if they go unhealed. Irritability, angry outbursts, and aggression are examples of traumatic behaviours. European powers, traders, andContinue reading “Importance of a mentally healthy society”